Short answer: wear a supportive sports bra and pole shorts that leave your inner thighs and the backs of your knees bare, and go barefoot. Skip moisturiser, fake tan, oil-based sunscreen and jewellery — they all kill your grip. Tie your hair back. That's genuinely it.
Now the longer version, because "what do I wear?" is really "will I look ridiculous, and will I be able to hold on?"
Just signed up for your first pole class? Welcome to the best decision you've made all year. Here's the honest, practical guide from people who've been in the studio for over a decade and have seen every first-class outfit mistake there is.

The non-negotiables
A good sports bra or bralette
This is your most important piece. You need something that stays put when you're upside down, spinning, and generally defying gravity. We wear-test the hell out of every bra we make — if a boob even thinks about escaping during a handspring, it goes back to the drawing board. Look for something with a secure back closure, good band support, and enough coverage that you can focus on the move instead of adjusting every five minutes.
Fuller bust? Read our guide to pole wear for bigger busts — we go deep on which styles work best.
Pole shorts
Yes, they're small. No, it's not about showing off — it's physics. Your skin is what grips the pole, so you need bare inner thighs, backs of knees, and hips. Fabric between you and the metal = sliding. Not the look.
If you're not ready for tiny shorts on class one, that's completely fine. Start with something that gives you more coverage while still exposing your inner thigh — our Tie Up Gym Shorts are the most popular beginner choice, with an adjustable side tie so you can control exactly how much leg is showing.
| Short style | Coverage level | Best for |
|---|---|---|
| Tie Up Gym Shorts | Longer leg, adjustable | Class one, building confidence |
| Super High Waisted Shorts | High rise, tummy support | Inversions, when you want coverage up top |
| Mid Waisted Shorts | Mid rise, classic pole length | Once you're comfortable and ready to commit |
| Scrunch Bum Shorts | Cheeky, booty-lifting | When you're fully in your pole era |
Want the full explanation of why pole shorts are cut the way they are? Read our no-shame guide to pole shorts and skin grip.
Bare feet
Class one: go barefoot. Feel the floor, learn your balance, get used to how your body moves around the pole without the added height and instability of heels. Once you've got a few classes under your belt and you want to explore pole heels — we'll be right here waiting for you.
What not to wear to a pole class
- Lotion, body butter, fake tan, oil-based sunscreen — even from yesterday. These transfer to the pole and kill your grip. Shower, skip the body products, and apply moisturiser after class instead.
- Rings, bracelets, necklaces — they catch on poles and hurt your hands and shins. Leave them at home or in your bag.
- Leggings or long shorts — fabric between your inner thigh and the pole means you'll slide. Even thin leggings cause problems. We know it's tempting on class one, but you'll end up working three times as hard with your hands to compensate.
- Spray deodorant or antiperspirant on your hands and arms — same story as body lotion. It can coat the skin and affect your grip. Apply before class and let it absorb fully, or switch to a roll-on. Avoid spraying your hands or arms right before you head in.
- Loose hair — tie it back before you walk in. Loose hair catches on the pole, whips across your face during spins, and in certain holds can dig uncomfortably into your neck. A tight bun or high ponytail works well. Avoid big clips or chunky accessories that could press against your head during a move.
Optional but handy
- Pole grip — not essential for class one but worth knowing about. If your hands get sweaty or slippery, a small amount of grip aid on your palms can make early climbs and holds much less frustrating. Ask your instructor which type suits the studio's poles, or read our pole grip guide to work out whether your skin runs sweaty or dry.
- A small mesh wash bag — pole wear lasts much longer when it's washed gently. A wash bag means your bra and shorts stay in shape for years.
What to bring to your first class
- Water bottle — pole is a proper workout, even on day one. Stay hydrated.
- Small towel — useful for wiping your hands between spins if they get slippery, and for drying off after a tough conditioning round.
- Hair tie — if you have long hair, don't forget this. The pole will remind you if you do.
- A warm layer for after — optional, but nice to have for the walk home. Your body temperature drops quickly once you stop moving.
What to expect at your first class
You won't be doing anything scary on day one — promise. Most beginner classes start with conditioning, basic spins, and getting comfortable with the pole. No inversions, no climbing, no "oh god is she going to fall" moments. Just you, a warm-up, some foundational moves, and probably a room full of people who also weren't sure what to wear on their first day.
The pole community is one of the most welcoming, inclusive, non-judgey spaces you'll ever walk into. Every person in that room has had a class one. They remember it. They want yours to be great.
About those bruises...
Here's the thing nobody warns you about before your first class: you'll probably bruise. Not because you're doing anything wrong — because you're doing it right.
Bruising happens when the pole presses against the skin you're gripping with — inner arms, inner thighs, backs of the knees. The pole community calls them "pole kisses" and wears them like a badge of honour. They're a sign you're working hard enough to actually hold on.
They fade fast. They get fewer and lighter as your skin conditions to the pole. They're completely normal and every single person in that class has had them. If you're worried about marks for an event or holiday, give yourself a week or two between sessions and the occasion. Otherwise — wear them proudly.
Want to try before you buy?
If you're in Melbourne, you can come and try things on. Our studio and shop is at Factory 2/45 Technology Circuit, Hallam VIC 3803, in Melbourne's south-east. We'll help you find your size, and we do alterations and custom sizing if nothing off the rack is quite right. Fit is genuinely our thing.
Frequently asked questions — first pole class edition
What should I wear to my first pole class?
A supportive sports bra and pole shorts that leave your inner thighs and the backs of your knees bare, plus bare feet. Skin contact is what grips the pole. If tiny shorts feel like too much on day one, adjustable tie-up gym shorts give you more coverage while still exposing the inner thigh.
Do I need to be fit or flexible to start?
No. Pole builds both. Your instructor meets you where you are. Most students see noticeable strength gains within 6–8 weeks.
Is pole dancing only for women?
Absolutely not. Pole welcomes every gender — men's pole and non-binary classes are growing fast across Australia.
What size should I buy?
We size XS through 3XL and have a full size guide on every product page. If you're between sizes or have fit questions, message us — fit is genuinely our thing.
Can I wear a regular sports bra to pole?
You can, but purpose-built pole wear is designed to stay put during inversions and spins in a way that most gym bras aren't. Give yourself the best chance on class one.
What if I feel self-conscious in small shorts?
That's completely normal. Start in whatever makes you comfortable — gym shorts, longer styles — and let your confidence build from there. The room will surprise you.
Can I wear leggings to pole class?
Not if you want to grip. Fabric between your inner thigh and the pole makes you slide, even thin leggings. Leggings are fine for a warm-up or a conditioning-only class, but you'll want bare legs the moment you start climbing or sitting on the pole.
Will I bruise after my first pole class?
Probably, and it's normal. Bruises show up where the pole presses on the skin you're gripping with — inner arms, inner thighs, backs of the knees. They fade quickly and get lighter as your skin conditions to the pole.
Ready to shop your first pole outfit?
- Gym Shorts — the perfect beginner short
- Sports Bras & Bralettes
- Pole Grip
- All Pole Dance Clothing — XS to 3XL
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